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# 1 - Bride's Hairstyles. Up-dos or down, straight or curly?
    How do you know what hair style is best for your wedding? The decision will be based on the type of gown you select, whether or not you will wear a head piece, and more importantly, the hair style that makes you feel like a princess—whether it’s up or down. If you already know that an “up-do” isn’t you, then you only need to focus on how your hair looks best when worn down. For some, their hair looks best when just washed; for others, their hair looks best when washed the day before. If you want to experiment with curls, try a few different ideas and put on your gown and head piece. This is the only way you will know for sure. If you want to try an up-do, then make an appointment with a hair dresser and try it out. Here are some ideas:

  • French twist – twists can be worn high or low; depending on your facial structure; you will know which looks best for you.

  • Cascading curls up-do – this is a beautiful look that can be adorned by a few small flowers or nothing at all. If the curls are elaborate, than nothing more needs to be added—simply add beautiful earrings and a necklace.

  • Crowned up-do – if your hair is long enough, there are many braided designs that can be rolled up and tucked under.

  • Loose, tousled waves – brides of 2000-2004 like wearing a textured look with highlights—a great look if you want something different from the straight hair look and prefer not to wear an up-do. Ask your hair dresser about the best time to get highlights.

  • Chignon –- hair pulled back and formed into a little ball worn at the neck. What a great way to keep your full hair together and top it off with a tiara, a fancy comb or a veil.

  • Glamour look – this style combines two looks; your hair is pulled back and you have strands of hair that frame your face. Today’s look is layered straight hair falling from the bangs and sides. With curly hair, it results in a romantic look.

# 2 - Timeline for Your Hair
You made up your mind! You want a new do for your wedding. Don't waste time; try the new do now so make sure it's going to work out. Then mark your calendar and schedule days to make touchups and trims so that the right color and length is just the way you want it on the big day. Use this as a guide:

  • Two months to go – highlights (if preferred)
  • One month to go - do a dress rehearsal with hair style and head piece
  • Two weeks to go – touchup the highlights; trim the split-ends
  • One week to go – touchup the roots if necessary
  • One day to go – shampoo and condition if your hair reacts better when washed the day before the wedding


    • # 3 - Hair for a Destination Wedding
    If you have a destination wedding, then keep your hair style as simple as possible or confirm an appointment with a specialist that is a good referral by a local wedding planner or trusted friend. You probably won't be able to have a dress rehearsal and you don't need any surprises on the day of.

    # 4 - Book a Hair Specialist
    Ask your friends for references of hair dressers that specialize in weddings. Your favorite long time hairdresser may give you a great cut and color, but may not be skilled in wedding up-dos.

    # 5 - Staying Healthy
    A bride’s beauty will come from within. Really. If you’re happy and in control of your wedding plans, you will shine on your wedding day. If you’re exhausted, you will look exhausted. Now is the time to take extra caring of yourself—we know how crazy that sounds—you already have a full schedule. Time to set up a list of priorities to stay sane and beautiful. No one wants to break out in hives or have a pimple blooming on the week of the wedding. Again, focus on you. Here are some quick tips:
  • Substitute soft drinks and caffeinated drinks with more water
  • Eat less sweet foods (unless it’s from natural foods like grapes, honeydew melon, apples and oranges). Don’t forget the green stuff—plenty of it makes you feel energetic.
  • Make special considerations for your personal needs. If you are prone to acne, then use a special antibacterial agent—but don’t try it the first time on the week of your wedding, because you never know how your body will react. Give yourself a month or two to see the results.
  • Your wedding day will involve much kissing, especially with your new spouse, but also with family and friends. Make sure your lips are kept moist during the week of your wedding with lip balms or other preferred moisturizer.

    • The following are common sense rules (unfortunately, Common Sense class is never taught in school).
  • Don’t try to get that great suntan on the week of your wedding. You don’t want to end up looking like a lobster or with your sunburn peeling off.
  • Don’t lose or gain too much weight that your wedding gown will look too loose or too tight.
  • Don’t drink too much alcohol the night of the rehearsal dinner (if the wedding is the next day).
  • Don’t try a new incredible makeup a few days before your wedding (you might have an allergic reaction).
  • Don’t skimp on sleep the night before your big day.
  • Don’t “worry” too much – that’s just wasted energy – you will need energy for the big day.
  • Go for a massage one week before the wedding. take a 30 minute walk every day or stretch for relaxation. You can spend ten minutes each day in total silence while at the beach, park or in your room alone.

    Most importantly, keep a positive attitude—no matter what happens. Everyone has their opinions, suggestions and recommendations for your wedding. The most difficult decisions are trying not to hurt someone’s feelings and trying to make everyone happy. Don’t stress! Accept their comments with a smile and thank them for mentioning it and you will consider it. The final decision is yours, remember, it’s your wedding.

    • # 6 - Plastic Surgery or Other Nips and Tucks
    Some brides feel this is the time for a serious physical change, such as plastic surgery, lipo suction, new hair cut and color, or cosmetic dentistry. If you think about it for a second, a special guy has just asked if you could spend the rest of your life with him – just the way you are! Is a change really necessary? Perhaps that front tooth with a slight space on the left could be cosmetically improved, and maybe a bust enlargement will help fill the wedding dress better, and perhaps removing some fat cells from the tummy area will make you look better in that fitted gown, or now you have a great excuse to get that nose job you always wanted. If you really think any of these changes will greatly improve your looks and give you the confidence you need, then that’s okay. Is it necessary? Probably not. Be careful not to compare yourself to the perfect looking models in the magazines.

    First, consider simple changes. You will be smiling all day on your wedding. If you are a coffee or tea drinker, or love to drink red wine, then you may want to consider a tooth whitening program to really shine on your day. Talk about the plans you have with your maid of honor, mother, and future husband. Since men tend to be visual, he may agree with your changes, or he may assure you that you are perfect just the way you are. The final decision is yours, just make sure that the change is fully comfortable for you.


    # 7 - The Week of Your Wedding
    One week to go! Follow through on all of your checklists. Cut them down to 25% and 10% by seven days before the wedding. Stretch to relieve the stress and keep balanced. Keep a notebook and pen in your bathroom, in your car, and next to your bed. Your mind will think of little details and the best way to handle those thoughts is by writing it down when you think of it. Sometimes we think we will remember, but how many times have you said, “there was something important I wanted to remember for my wedding, but now I can’t remember it”?


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