20 Years, 1,400 + Weddings What I’ve Learned About Couples on Their Wedding Day
After capturing over 1,400 + weddings across two decades, I’ve worked with every kind of couple — brides and grooms, same-sex couples, and everyone in between. From sprawling vineyards to elegant ballrooms, each wedding is unique, yet some universal truths ensure your day is unforgettable, both in the moment and in your photographs.
Here’s my distilled wisdom for brides, grooms, and all couples planning their big day.
1. Chase the Golden Hour Glow
The soft, golden light just before sunset transforms portraits into something magical, bathing couples in a warm, romantic glow.
Tips for success:
Schedule your couple portraits during golden hour (the hour before sunset).
Trust your photographer to find the best spot for that perfect light.
2. Let Your Day Unfold Naturally
The most cherished photos capture authentic moments — a shared laugh, a stolen glance, or a quiet moment together, unposed and unscripted.
How to make it happen:
Build a flexible timeline with room for spontaneity.
Embrace unplanned moments; they often become your favourite memories.
3. Discover Your Venue’s Secret Spots
Every venue has hidden gems — a quiet garden nook, a scenic lookout, or a charming corner that shines at the right time of day. An experienced photographer knows how to find and use these spots.
4. Rain Adds Romance
Rainy days can create some of the most atmospheric and intimate portraits.
Wet weather adds a unique charm.
Pro tip:
Use clear umbrellas for stunning, rain-kissed photos.
Have a backup plan to stay stress-free, no matter the weather.
5. Little Details, Big Memories
Small touches — like heirloom jewellery, a meaningful glance during vows, or a personalised vow book — tell the story of your love and make for powerful photographs.
6. Choose a Photographer Who Puts You at Ease
Your photographer is with you for most of the day, so pick someone who makes you feel relaxed and confident. After 20 years, I’ve learned to be part guide, part problem-solver, and part calm in the storm, ensuring you enjoy every moment.
7. Consider a First Look
A private “first look” before the ceremony can calm nerves and give you more time for portraits, freeing you up to mingle with guests later.
8. The Ceremony is the Heart of the Day
Vows, laughter, tears — the ceremony is where raw emotions shine. A skilled photographer captures every fleeting moment, from subtle glances to joyful outbursts.
9. Golden Hour Enhances Everything
Beyond portraits, golden hour elevates outdoor receptions, toasts, or speeches, casting a dreamy glow over your celebration.
10. Pause to Savor the Moment
Your wedding day will pass in a blur. Take a few deliberate moments to pause, breathe, and soak in the love and joy around you.
Final Thoughts
The most beautiful photos come from real, heartfelt moments, not perfect conditions. Whether you’re a bride and groom, two brides, two grooms, or a couple defying labels, your love is what makes the day unforgettable.
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